Valentine’s Day Jewelry and the Mistakes Men Make
The gift of jewelry on Valentine’s Day will never go out of style. Jewelry makes more of a statement than the obligatory rose bouquet, and it speaks volumes of your commitment. But you can’t hand over just any piece of jewelry and expect to sweep her off her feet. Your selection should be thoughtful, as unique and priceless as she is. To help guide you in your quest, we have put together a list of the top seven mistakes men make when shopping for Valentine’s Day jewelry.
- Fixating on red gemstones. Though ruby and garnet stones are elegant and beautiful, they are a bit clichéd when it comes to Valentine’s Day. You can find these stones at almost every jewelry store and department store on earth. Try shopping for stones that are less commonplace, like pink, purple, or blue gemstones. All of these stones are attractive and signify their own unique meaning.
- Not thinking outside the heart. Heart-shaped everything is overdone on Valentine’s Day. Heart-shaped candy, flowers, balloons, and other items are the order of the day. Not to mention the fact that most women already have their fair share of heart-shaped jewelry. So, to avoid being boring, try to “think outside the heart” when choosing jewelry shapes.
- Diamonds or bust. Some men feel pressured to buy diamonds on Valentine’s Day, but if you’re on a budget, you may not be able to pull this off. Avoid diamond “accent” pieces that really aren’t diamonds at all. Instead, try getting a nice but smaller diamond in a sterling silver setting.
- Not knowing her style. Before you buy, you have to consider your valentine’s style. Does she have a white-collar job where she doesn’t have to work with her hands? Would a large piece get in the way of her day-to-day functions? Don’t buy enormous or excessively ornate pieces if you know they won’t suit her style.
- Picking the ubiquitous necklace. Do you grab the most popular necklace at the mall in a rush on Valentine’s Day? If so, this is sure to disappoint. Women don’t want to get the same jewelry that everyone else got on Valentine’s Day. Check ads and websites for a unique piece that you won’t find at the mall.
- Too big or too small. You have to conform the size of your selection to the size of your special someone. Is she tall, petite, thin, or full-figured? Jewelry will look different depending on the size and body shape of your valentine. A large stone will overwhelm small or slender fingers, while a small ring might get lost on a full-figured woman.
- Gifts without meaning. Your selection should be a symbol of your love for her, not just something you thought would look nice. Take the time to learn more about the various types of jewelry and find a piece that suits her while also conveying your love. The jewelry you select should have meaning as well as beauty.
